- It is really hard to wait for the right person in life. Especially when The wrong ones are damn attractive!
- Girls have a bad habit of holding on for too long. Guys have a bad habit of letting go too easily.
- The greatest distance on earth is not North to South. It is when I am right in front of you and you don't know that I love you.
- Caring will get you hurt. Get rid...or get ready.
- I wish removing certain people from your life was as easy as clicking a DELETE button.
- Loving someone who doesn't feel the same way is like using a white crayon on a white paper. It's always invisible.
- Flirting for those who are single... is their way of saying I'm free. For those who are committed... it's their way of saying I'm bored.
- STRENGTH is what you call when you reject the person that broke your heart even though you're still in love with her/him.
- Texting from time to time is not a relationship, if you can't get a phonecall Ur not important, Period.
- I always find my own happiness in the smile of the one I love...and the way he stares at me.... Gosh.. I am so taken!
- Haters don't really hate you. They hate themselves because you're a reflection of what they wish to be.
- Don't be so quick to break up with someone... get to the root of the problem first & find a solution. Communication is key.
- Sometimes we may open our hearts to the wrong people, but that's okay though... we also have the power to close them again.
- Don't wait for the right person to come into your life. Be the right person to come into someone else's life.
- I have never believed in being lucky... but I will always believe in faith. Dreams don't have to be dreams if you work them into existence.
- People will smile when you're in their presence but know that when you leave, it may be an entire different story.Be careful, watch ur back!
- Living your life with no goals or dreams is the same as trying to find a destination with no address. You'll always end up lost.
- If you're important to them, they will always find a way to make time for you. No excuses, no lies and no broken promises.
- It's extremely rare that someone will cheat on their loved one for a complete stranger. Most unfaithfulness occurs with a known acquaintance.
- There are always two sides to a story - the way it really happened and the way some people remember it.
- WARNING: Unhealthy relationships may cause headaches, stress & a waste of your time. The cure for this is to be single.
- TRUST is like an eraser...it gets smaller and smaller after every mistake.
- LIES will always be bitter in the end, no matter how sweet you made it at the beginning.
- If the relationship doesn't make you a BETTER person, then you're with the wrong one.
- Sometimes what you want isn't always what you get, but in the end what you get is so much better then what you wanted.
- Relationships last long because two people made a choice. The decision to keep it, to fight for it and to work hard for it.
- Never look back..we say. But how was I to know...I miss you so.
- When love received is insufficient, I turn around and flee. When love received is overwhelming, I still flee and I'm scared. I can't be normal!
- How will you know it's the RIGHT thing...when you were never WRONG.... Like saying... s/he could never be the ONE if s/he is the only one.
- REAL MEN dont GOSSIP..if ur man talks too much..he's lookin for a MAN TOO.
- Is facebook messing up your relationship??? well dial this number 1-800-LOG OFF!
- I changed all my passwords to ”incorrect”. So when I forget, my computer tells me “your password is incorrect.”
(http://twitter.com/#!/iam_viv)
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
I love You Goodbye (The Affair...)
Una sa lahat, gusto kong malaman mo na pinag isipan ko to ng buong magdamag.. mula nung gabing magkasama tayo actually lagi na akong puyat, hnd makatulog ng tuwid. Masaya ako sa nararamdaman ko para sayo… at mahal kita..mahal na mahal na…sigurado ako dyan. Pero, nalulungkot ako mahal. Alam mo kasi, sa sobrang tindi nitong nararamdaman ko para sayo, gusto ko na lagi kitang kasama, makapiling…na akin lang. Gusto kitang mahalin ng buo at walang pag aalinlangan. Gusto kong ibigay sayo ang lahat ng kaya kong ibigay at ipadama bilang isang umiibig. Gusto kong bumuo ng isang pamilya sayo. Gusto kong ipagsigawan sa buong mundo na mahal kita.. na akin ka lang. Pero kung gagawin ko yon, pighati lng ang dulot nun para sa’kin dahil hnd mo to kayang suklian ng sapat. Mabibigo lang ako. It may sound selfish, pero ganun naman talaga ang konsepto ng dalawang taong nagmamahalan dba.. dalawa lang…hnd tatlo..hnd kahati.
Sabi mo hnd mo ako iiwan at lagi mo akong papasayahin… pero mahal, alam mong hnd sukdulan at wagas yon. May hangganan din. Kaya napag desisyunan ko na habang maaga pa..habang kaya ko pang iwan ka at putulin to, gagawin ko na. Masakit pero lilipas din to. Malulungkot ako pero mabuti nang gagawin ko to habang wala pa tayo maxadung matatamis na alaala.
Maraming salamat..dahil sayo, napatunayan ko na kaya ko pa palang magmahal ulet. Akala ko kasi nun, patay na puso ko mula nung naghiwalay kami ni EX. Dahil ang totoo nyan, naka tatlong bf ako after kami naghiwalay, pero nahulog lang lahat sa panakip-butas. Hindi ako masaya sa kanila. Pero sayo mahal, iba ka. Kahit sa simula pa lang, bukod tangi ka. Hindi kita malilimutan..dahil nasa sayo ang mga katangian na hinahanap ko sa isang lalake. Mas higit ka pa nga kesa kay EX. Kaso, hindi ka naman malaya.
Please hwag kang magalit o magtampo sa’kin…don’t make this hard for me. May paki-usap sana ako… after mong mabasa ang sulat na to, hnd na muna tayo magcha-chat sa FB at hwag ka na ring mag text/tumawag. Kailangan kong dumistansya sayo mahal para mapadali lahat. Nawa’y maintindihan mo.
Mahal kita….paalam.
Sabi mo hnd mo ako iiwan at lagi mo akong papasayahin… pero mahal, alam mong hnd sukdulan at wagas yon. May hangganan din. Kaya napag desisyunan ko na habang maaga pa..habang kaya ko pang iwan ka at putulin to, gagawin ko na. Masakit pero lilipas din to. Malulungkot ako pero mabuti nang gagawin ko to habang wala pa tayo maxadung matatamis na alaala.
Maraming salamat..dahil sayo, napatunayan ko na kaya ko pa palang magmahal ulet. Akala ko kasi nun, patay na puso ko mula nung naghiwalay kami ni EX. Dahil ang totoo nyan, naka tatlong bf ako after kami naghiwalay, pero nahulog lang lahat sa panakip-butas. Hindi ako masaya sa kanila. Pero sayo mahal, iba ka. Kahit sa simula pa lang, bukod tangi ka. Hindi kita malilimutan..dahil nasa sayo ang mga katangian na hinahanap ko sa isang lalake. Mas higit ka pa nga kesa kay EX. Kaso, hindi ka naman malaya.
Please hwag kang magalit o magtampo sa’kin…don’t make this hard for me. May paki-usap sana ako… after mong mabasa ang sulat na to, hnd na muna tayo magcha-chat sa FB at hwag ka na ring mag text/tumawag. Kailangan kong dumistansya sayo mahal para mapadali lahat. Nawa’y maintindihan mo.
Mahal kita….paalam.
How Do I Hate Thee...
They say..when Ur in a relationship, your doomed! Why?.... because being in a relationship is no joke. You are to pledge your Love, Time, Devotion, Happiness, Sadness, and most of all...ur Word. It's a commitment, a partnership wherein.. both of U do compromises for the relationship to work. It's not being demanding but rather being sensitive to the needs of Ur partner. If one is not willing to compromise then what's the point of staying?
I was..were...am...in a relationship many times.. always seeking the right love for me. The right man whom I will share my everything...the one who will complete me. Some ended long enough for both of us to grow apart from each other..some ended swiftly..as quick as whirlwind. At the end of every line, I was always left asking to myself...is my standard really that high? tsk tsk
So again... here are the rules.. I don't see any 'objectifiable' with the list..but if there is/are......again, I can compromise. ;-)
1) Ayaw na ayaw ko Ung hnd nag-ttxt..lalong-lalo na kung nakasanayan nang may daily txt messages tas bigla nlng hnd magttxt ng kht isa sa loob ng isang araw. Nakaka-inis din Ung hnd nagre-reply.. malay ko ba baka naaksidente ka o na-salvage ka na. Ano ba naman yung pisong txt..hnd mo magawa? Papasok-pasok ka sa isang relasyon tapos hnd ka naman pala marunong humawak ng responsibilidad. Maliban na lang kung naglolokohan lang tau o nagga-gamitan..pinapalabas na Tayo..yun pala'y OPM lang. (On Pag Magkasama)
2) Ayoko nang nakikipag chat ka sa ibang babae...maliban na lng kung kilala ko na xa. At bakit ka ba nakikipag-chat? kung nabo-bored ka saken, pagsabihan mo ako. Hnd naman ako manghuhula..sabihin mo lang kung anong gusto mong mangyari...at gagawin ko.
3) Ayoko nang naninigarilyo ka sa harap ko...hnd kita pinagbabawalan sa bisyo mo.. ayoko lang nung may kaharap akong tambucho na nagsasalita at gumagalaw.
4) Ayoko nang bigla ka na lang hindi umiimik at nagsasalita... hnd ka naman ganyan nung una kitang nakilala't nanliligaw ka pa. Hnd ako sanay sa dead air... kung may napuna kang hnd mo gusto, i-express mo. Maiintindihan ko..promise! at willing akong makipag compromise alang-alang sa relasyon natin. Ganun naman dapat dba?.. when Ur in a relationship, give and take lang yan..it's all about doing compromises. Kung hnd mo alam ang essence ng compromises sa isang relasyon, wag ka na lang makikipag-relasyon. Stay Single ka na lang tsong.
5) Ayoko nang hindi mo ako pinagbabayad everytime na lumalabas tayo't mamamasyal. Hindi porke't ikaw ang lalake eh ikaw dapat magbayad. May pera din ako noh!
6) Ayoko nang hnd mo naaalala ang mga paborito ko..mga importante't maseselang bagay na ayaw at gusto ko. Nagpapahiwatig kasi yon na hnd ka ganon ka-interesado at para pala akong timang na nakikipag usap lang sa pader.
7) Ayoko sa insensitive at sa walang tiwala.. sabi nga nila, ang pag-ibig na walang tiwala ay parang mataba...hindi nagwo- work-out! Makiramdam ka naman bago ka magselos. Magtanong ka naman bago ka magalit. (tsk tsk tsk.. para saken yata to..)
I was..were...am...in a relationship many times.. always seeking the right love for me. The right man whom I will share my everything...the one who will complete me. Some ended long enough for both of us to grow apart from each other..some ended swiftly..as quick as whirlwind. At the end of every line, I was always left asking to myself...is my standard really that high? tsk tsk
So again... here are the rules.. I don't see any 'objectifiable' with the list..but if there is/are......again, I can compromise. ;-)
1) Ayaw na ayaw ko Ung hnd nag-ttxt..lalong-lalo na kung nakasanayan nang may daily txt messages tas bigla nlng hnd magttxt ng kht isa sa loob ng isang araw. Nakaka-inis din Ung hnd nagre-reply.. malay ko ba baka naaksidente ka o na-salvage ka na. Ano ba naman yung pisong txt..hnd mo magawa? Papasok-pasok ka sa isang relasyon tapos hnd ka naman pala marunong humawak ng responsibilidad. Maliban na lang kung naglolokohan lang tau o nagga-gamitan..pinapalabas na Tayo..yun pala'y OPM lang. (On Pag Magkasama)
2) Ayoko nang nakikipag chat ka sa ibang babae...maliban na lng kung kilala ko na xa. At bakit ka ba nakikipag-chat? kung nabo-bored ka saken, pagsabihan mo ako. Hnd naman ako manghuhula..sabihin mo lang kung anong gusto mong mangyari...at gagawin ko.
3) Ayoko nang naninigarilyo ka sa harap ko...hnd kita pinagbabawalan sa bisyo mo.. ayoko lang nung may kaharap akong tambucho na nagsasalita at gumagalaw.
4) Ayoko nang bigla ka na lang hindi umiimik at nagsasalita... hnd ka naman ganyan nung una kitang nakilala't nanliligaw ka pa. Hnd ako sanay sa dead air... kung may napuna kang hnd mo gusto, i-express mo. Maiintindihan ko..promise! at willing akong makipag compromise alang-alang sa relasyon natin. Ganun naman dapat dba?.. when Ur in a relationship, give and take lang yan..it's all about doing compromises. Kung hnd mo alam ang essence ng compromises sa isang relasyon, wag ka na lang makikipag-relasyon. Stay Single ka na lang tsong.
5) Ayoko nang hindi mo ako pinagbabayad everytime na lumalabas tayo't mamamasyal. Hindi porke't ikaw ang lalake eh ikaw dapat magbayad. May pera din ako noh!
6) Ayoko nang hnd mo naaalala ang mga paborito ko..mga importante't maseselang bagay na ayaw at gusto ko. Nagpapahiwatig kasi yon na hnd ka ganon ka-interesado at para pala akong timang na nakikipag usap lang sa pader.
7) Ayoko sa insensitive at sa walang tiwala.. sabi nga nila, ang pag-ibig na walang tiwala ay parang mataba...hindi nagwo- work-out! Makiramdam ka naman bago ka magselos. Magtanong ka naman bago ka magalit. (tsk tsk tsk.. para saken yata to..)
Hindi Nya Alam
Hindi nya alam..kung gaano ako kasaya nang dumating sya sa buhay ko.
Hindi nya alam..kung paano nya nabigyan ng kulay ang buhay kong payak at malumbay.
Hindi nya alam..kung gaano ako kalungkot kung nakaligtaan nyang magparamdam/mag text.
Hindi nya alam..na sobrang saya ko sa tuwing kami ay magkasama.
Hindi nya alam..na nasasaktan ako kapag nagseselos sya nang walang dahilan.
Hindi nya alam..na sobra ko syang pinagmamalaki sa aking mga kaibigan.
Hindi nya alam..na kasama sya sa aking mga pangarap.
Hindi nya alam..na nagseselos ako pero hindi ko pinapapakita dahil ayokong masakal sya.
Hindi nya alam..na kahit matagal na kame, kinikilig parin ako.
Hindi nya alam..na kahit hindi sya perpekto, tanggap na tanggap ko mga pagkukulang nya.
Hindi nya alam..nalulumbay ako sa tuwing kami ay nagkaka-layo.
Hindi nya alam..na sa kanya ko lang to lahat naramdaman.
Hindi nya alam..na kahit hiwalay na kame, sya parin ang aking inaasam.
Hindi nya alam..na ako'y umaasa pa......at higit sa lahat..hindi nya alam kung gaano ko sya kamahal... dahil ang totoo... hindi ko lahat yon nai-sabi sa kanya.. kaya wala syang alam.
Hindi nya alam..kung paano nya nabigyan ng kulay ang buhay kong payak at malumbay.
Hindi nya alam..kung gaano ako kalungkot kung nakaligtaan nyang magparamdam/mag text.
Hindi nya alam..na sobrang saya ko sa tuwing kami ay magkasama.
Hindi nya alam..na nasasaktan ako kapag nagseselos sya nang walang dahilan.
Hindi nya alam..na sobra ko syang pinagmamalaki sa aking mga kaibigan.
Hindi nya alam..na kasama sya sa aking mga pangarap.
Hindi nya alam..na nagseselos ako pero hindi ko pinapapakita dahil ayokong masakal sya.
Hindi nya alam..na kahit matagal na kame, kinikilig parin ako.
Hindi nya alam..na kahit hindi sya perpekto, tanggap na tanggap ko mga pagkukulang nya.
Hindi nya alam..nalulumbay ako sa tuwing kami ay nagkaka-layo.
Hindi nya alam..na sa kanya ko lang to lahat naramdaman.
Hindi nya alam..na kahit hiwalay na kame, sya parin ang aking inaasam.
Hindi nya alam..na ako'y umaasa pa......at higit sa lahat..hindi nya alam kung gaano ko sya kamahal... dahil ang totoo... hindi ko lahat yon nai-sabi sa kanya.. kaya wala syang alam.
Philosophy in Love
Sa kaka EMO ko dulot ng BH fever.. heto ang mga bagay na nadiskubri ko sa net at sa text na nais ko ring ibahagi sa mga kaibigan kong nagmamahal, magmamahal at di minahal. (@_@)
1) Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag kang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya.
2) Wag mong bitawan ang taong hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.
3) Kung maghihintay kang may magmamahal sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo. Dapat hanapin mo din!
4) Kapag ang mahal mo ay ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa susunod na araw, ayaw mo na din sa kanya...naunahan ka lang nya.
5) Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa, kasi hnd ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung talagang mahal mo yung una.
6) Hindi porket mahal na mahal mo sya ay kayo na ang magkakatuluyan. May mga bagay na sadyang hnd ukol at hwag mo nang kwestyunin ang kapalaran.. hnd mo lang alam, hnd talaga sya ang ka-tsinelas mo. May isa pang darating na talagang nakalaan para sayo.
Sa mga SINGLE:
- Love is like a Butterfly, the more you chase it..the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it.
Sa mga COMMITTED:
- Love is not about becoming somebody's perfect partner, it's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
Sa mga PLAYFUL:
- Never say 'I Love You' if you don't care..Never talk about feelings if they aren't really there..and Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Remember, Karma is a bitch.
Acceptance is the key...to move on.
(Iam Viv)
1) Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag kang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya.
2) Wag mong bitawan ang taong hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.
3) Kung maghihintay kang may magmamahal sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo. Dapat hanapin mo din!
4) Kapag ang mahal mo ay ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa susunod na araw, ayaw mo na din sa kanya...naunahan ka lang nya.
5) Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa, kasi hnd ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung talagang mahal mo yung una.
6) Hindi porket mahal na mahal mo sya ay kayo na ang magkakatuluyan. May mga bagay na sadyang hnd ukol at hwag mo nang kwestyunin ang kapalaran.. hnd mo lang alam, hnd talaga sya ang ka-tsinelas mo. May isa pang darating na talagang nakalaan para sayo.
Sa mga SINGLE:
- Love is like a Butterfly, the more you chase it..the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it.
Sa mga COMMITTED:
- Love is not about becoming somebody's perfect partner, it's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
Sa mga PLAYFUL:
- Never say 'I Love You' if you don't care..Never talk about feelings if they aren't really there..and Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Remember, Karma is a bitch.
Acceptance is the key...to move on.
(Iam Viv)
Moving On Tips
1. Don't hook up with ur ex. You'll start right back at square one and all the work u did trying to get over them will be wasted.
2. Cut off all communication with your ex. You cannot be friends while you attempt to get over each other.
3. Exercise improves ur mood and alleviates depression, and the distraction will help keep ur mind off ur situation. Stay active!
4. Do what you have to do to get past the pain and hurt. Cry if you have to but don't hide from the pain.
5. Talk or write about your feelings. This might lead to discovering a reasonable explanation for the end of the relationship.
6. Stick to your close friends and family. Stay busy with them and focus on other things than the break up.
7. Go shopping. There is nothing that makes a woman feel better about herself than buying a new wardrobe.
8. Start hanging out with your friends again. Get out there in the world and start chatting with people. Go out and have fun. Don't stay home and sulk, as it will only make you feel more miserable.
9. It's fine if you want to cry. It doesn't matter if you are a man or woman crying will help you release the heartache.
10. Don't think about what your ex is doing. Think about what you are doing and focus 110% on your current situation.
11. Give yourself time to mourn/learn the relationship that’s ending before you look for somebody else to share your life with.
12. Get rid of all the sad and sentimental objects that you two accrued as a couple. Example: pics, notes, letters and clothes. Give yourself plenty of time to heal and recuperate. Put away pictures, gifts or any mementos that remind you of your ex.
13. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy again. Mean it!
14. Do not pick up their calls by any means. Do not call them either, you will just get hurt in the long run. There's absolutely no need anymore to hold on to something that wasn't meant to work out, so delete all traces of your ex!
15. Never think twice about your decision. If it is your decision to breakup with him, avoid thinking of happy times with him.
16. Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship. Go out and have fun!
17. The first step in getting over a broken relationship: Acknowledge and accept that the relationship is over.
18. Accept the past for what it was. The past is the past. You are in this present moment and have a future to live for.
19. Find a replacement! If nothing else goes, there's always the option of stepping back into the dating game.
20. Take a vacation! Being in a different destination reminds u that there's more to life than the world you created with ur ex.
21. If you know your EX passwords (Facebook/Twitter), resist the temptation to go into their acc. It will make the pain worse!
22. Every day when you get up tell your self that “I am able to be happy with or without (your EX name) in my life.
23. Doing things that you enjoy instead of stalking your EX will help you move forward.
24. Write daily events down in a journal. Writing will give you an outlet for your feelings when you are unable to voice the pain.
25. Having contact with EX after breakup will only make it harder for you to let go of the relationship. Give yourself a space!
26. Every time you break up, you get one step closer to the RIGHT one. Keep moving on till you meet the ONE. Forget your EX!
27. When you hear a song on the radio that reminds you of your EX, turn off the radio immediately and think of something else.
28. If you value your well-being and want to move on, you must eradicate all traces of your ex and leave the past in the past.
29. Don't to try and talk to ur EX after a breakup. It causes more hurt feelings and won't allow you to get over ur EX more easy.
30. Forgiveness is key to moving on from your past. It doesn't mean you'll forget. But if you don't forgive, you'll never move on.
31. Don't make excuses to see them or call them. Just let go, no matter how much it hurts. Value yourself..have some pride!
32. Delete your EX from address book, or cell phone. You shouldn't look at their number daily, and you really shouldn't use it.
33. Stop talking about what happened, it makes moving on even harder. The key to getting over a break up: learn and then move on.
34. Don't lie in bed feeling miserable. Get up, go about your daily life. It will help you get your mind off the breakup.
35. Don't yell and tell the world about your grudge but instead, tell everyone how strong you are right now after the storm.
36. Don't keep thinking about your ex, by doing so you're just giving them more and more power to hurt you.
37. Spoil yourself: Get a new hairstyle, have a spa day or go shopping. Resist the urge to call your EX!
38. Don't try getting back with your ex. You broke up for a reason, even if you can't really understand that reason. He made a choice to leave you..so make him regret doing it.
39. Talk to your trusted friends. Ask them for support and advice about their experiences moving on after heartbreak.
40. Believe in Urself...come on..you made it to life this far since ur birth..you can't disappoint urself right now just because a certain man/woman left you. There are plenty of fishes in the ocean.. just keep ur door and windows open. Don't be a prisoner of a bad romance.
2. Cut off all communication with your ex. You cannot be friends while you attempt to get over each other.
3. Exercise improves ur mood and alleviates depression, and the distraction will help keep ur mind off ur situation. Stay active!
4. Do what you have to do to get past the pain and hurt. Cry if you have to but don't hide from the pain.
5. Talk or write about your feelings. This might lead to discovering a reasonable explanation for the end of the relationship.
6. Stick to your close friends and family. Stay busy with them and focus on other things than the break up.
7. Go shopping. There is nothing that makes a woman feel better about herself than buying a new wardrobe.
8. Start hanging out with your friends again. Get out there in the world and start chatting with people. Go out and have fun. Don't stay home and sulk, as it will only make you feel more miserable.
9. It's fine if you want to cry. It doesn't matter if you are a man or woman crying will help you release the heartache.
10. Don't think about what your ex is doing. Think about what you are doing and focus 110% on your current situation.
11. Give yourself time to mourn/learn the relationship that’s ending before you look for somebody else to share your life with.
12. Get rid of all the sad and sentimental objects that you two accrued as a couple. Example: pics, notes, letters and clothes. Give yourself plenty of time to heal and recuperate. Put away pictures, gifts or any mementos that remind you of your ex.
13. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy again. Mean it!
14. Do not pick up their calls by any means. Do not call them either, you will just get hurt in the long run. There's absolutely no need anymore to hold on to something that wasn't meant to work out, so delete all traces of your ex!
15. Never think twice about your decision. If it is your decision to breakup with him, avoid thinking of happy times with him.
16. Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship. Go out and have fun!
17. The first step in getting over a broken relationship: Acknowledge and accept that the relationship is over.
18. Accept the past for what it was. The past is the past. You are in this present moment and have a future to live for.
19. Find a replacement! If nothing else goes, there's always the option of stepping back into the dating game.
20. Take a vacation! Being in a different destination reminds u that there's more to life than the world you created with ur ex.
21. If you know your EX passwords (Facebook/Twitter), resist the temptation to go into their acc. It will make the pain worse!
22. Every day when you get up tell your self that “I am able to be happy with or without (your EX name) in my life.
23. Doing things that you enjoy instead of stalking your EX will help you move forward.
24. Write daily events down in a journal. Writing will give you an outlet for your feelings when you are unable to voice the pain.
25. Having contact with EX after breakup will only make it harder for you to let go of the relationship. Give yourself a space!
26. Every time you break up, you get one step closer to the RIGHT one. Keep moving on till you meet the ONE. Forget your EX!
27. When you hear a song on the radio that reminds you of your EX, turn off the radio immediately and think of something else.
28. If you value your well-being and want to move on, you must eradicate all traces of your ex and leave the past in the past.
29. Don't to try and talk to ur EX after a breakup. It causes more hurt feelings and won't allow you to get over ur EX more easy.
30. Forgiveness is key to moving on from your past. It doesn't mean you'll forget. But if you don't forgive, you'll never move on.
31. Don't make excuses to see them or call them. Just let go, no matter how much it hurts. Value yourself..have some pride!
32. Delete your EX from address book, or cell phone. You shouldn't look at their number daily, and you really shouldn't use it.
33. Stop talking about what happened, it makes moving on even harder. The key to getting over a break up: learn and then move on.
34. Don't lie in bed feeling miserable. Get up, go about your daily life. It will help you get your mind off the breakup.
35. Don't yell and tell the world about your grudge but instead, tell everyone how strong you are right now after the storm.
36. Don't keep thinking about your ex, by doing so you're just giving them more and more power to hurt you.
37. Spoil yourself: Get a new hairstyle, have a spa day or go shopping. Resist the urge to call your EX!
38. Don't try getting back with your ex. You broke up for a reason, even if you can't really understand that reason. He made a choice to leave you..so make him regret doing it.
39. Talk to your trusted friends. Ask them for support and advice about their experiences moving on after heartbreak.
40. Believe in Urself...come on..you made it to life this far since ur birth..you can't disappoint urself right now just because a certain man/woman left you. There are plenty of fishes in the ocean.. just keep ur door and windows open. Don't be a prisoner of a bad romance.
After Break-Up
Hindi dapat makipag relasyon agad pagkatapos ng isang masakit na hiwalayan...
Una, you have learned to love that person so much sa maikli o mahabang panahon na pagsasama nyo bilang magsyota.... at hindi mo pwedeng i-UNLEARN ang isang bagay na naisa-puso't isip mo na. Para lang yang nag aral kang magmaneho ng sasakyan. Hindi mangyayari na darating ang araw na biglang hnd mo na alam paano magmaneho. tsk tsk.. ano un nanaginip ka lang? tsk tsk...You may survive the pain pero kahit lumipas pa ang mahabang panahon.. andun parin ung ala ala. It takes time bago mo makalimutan..
Pangalawa, magiging UNFAIR ka sa taong ipapalit mo at lalabas ka pang masama kapag hindi nag work out ang relasyon.
Bigyan natin ng time na mabuo muli ang sarili bago pumasok sa isang panibagong relasyon. At kung iibig man muli o feel mo na talagang makipag relasyon, siguraduhin na may potential o boyfriend/girlfriend material ang taong yon.. na sa tingin mo ay pwede at madali mo lng matutunang mahalin... hindi yung basta ka nlng papatol dahil maganda/gwapo/mayaman/matalino/sexy o hunk.... Isang tip, dapat piliin mo yung napapatawa ka..kahit malungkot ka. =)
Enjoy the moment.. being SINGLE.. while searching and waiting for the right time.. and for the RIGHT ONE. ^_^
Una, you have learned to love that person so much sa maikli o mahabang panahon na pagsasama nyo bilang magsyota.... at hindi mo pwedeng i-UNLEARN ang isang bagay na naisa-puso't isip mo na. Para lang yang nag aral kang magmaneho ng sasakyan. Hindi mangyayari na darating ang araw na biglang hnd mo na alam paano magmaneho. tsk tsk.. ano un nanaginip ka lang? tsk tsk...You may survive the pain pero kahit lumipas pa ang mahabang panahon.. andun parin ung ala ala. It takes time bago mo makalimutan..
Pangalawa, magiging UNFAIR ka sa taong ipapalit mo at lalabas ka pang masama kapag hindi nag work out ang relasyon.
Bigyan natin ng time na mabuo muli ang sarili bago pumasok sa isang panibagong relasyon. At kung iibig man muli o feel mo na talagang makipag relasyon, siguraduhin na may potential o boyfriend/girlfriend material ang taong yon.. na sa tingin mo ay pwede at madali mo lng matutunang mahalin... hindi yung basta ka nlng papatol dahil maganda/gwapo/mayaman/matalino/sexy o hunk.... Isang tip, dapat piliin mo yung napapatawa ka..kahit malungkot ka. =)
Enjoy the moment.. being SINGLE.. while searching and waiting for the right time.. and for the RIGHT ONE. ^_^
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